Maintaining intimacy in long term relationships

Maintaining intimacy in long term relationships

It can be challenging to maintain intimacy in long-term relationships. With the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's easy to let intimacy fall by the wayside. However, it's important to keep the spark alive in your relationship. 

Here are some tips for maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships:

1. Make time for each other.


2. Communicate openly and honestly.


3. Be physically and emotionally present.


4. Be close in the little things. 


5. Give and receive hugs freely (and don't be offended if your partner doesn't reciprocate).


2. Don't take each other for granted. 


3. Be generous with kind words, thoughtful gifts and gentle touches (even when they're not reciprocated).


4. Remember that the spark between you is what brought you together in the first place. It's important to remember this, even when it feels like everything else has become routine.


5. Remember that communication is key when things start to feel stale. You don't have to talk about the details of your day or what's on your mind; just sharing a few words can bring you closer together again.


6. Find ways to be intimate in new and exciting ways. If you're feeling tired, try being physically close but not touching (like cuddling with a blanket). Or put on some music and dance together-it doesn't matter if you're both terrible at it!


7. Don't expect too much from your partner. You can't control how much time or attention your partner can give you, but you can control how much you give back to them.


8. Be kind and gentle with yourself when you feel like the spark has gone out of your relationship. It's important to remember that no matter what happens between you and your partner, your relationship is not a competition. There's no "winner" when it comes to keeping the spark alive in your relationship.


9. Don't take it personally if your partner doesn't meet your expectations; this may be a situation where two people can't beat one (i.e., no one person can give 100 percent of their attention all the time). What's most important is that you both work together to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship. It takes effort and commitment, but with these tips, you will be able to maintain intimacy in your relationship.


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1) Take time for each other. 


2) Be honest and open in your communication.


 3) Remember that sex is just one part of a healthy relationship. 


4) Try something new together, even if it's simple like going to a new restaurant or visiting an art gallery. 


5) Tell your partner what you appreciate about them; it will help keep the spark alive. 


 6) Give compliments freely, but don't be too complimentary if you aren't sincere about it. 


7) Show your partner that they are important to you by creating a shared calendar and making plans together.


8. Let go of past hurts; let them go so that you can move forward in your relationship. 


9. Don't forget to say "I love you" on a regular basis, even if it feels like a cliche at this point (it never gets old). 


10.  Negotiate with each other when you have different desires or needs in the relationship.


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Intimacy killers include:


1) Taking each other for granted. 


2) Disconnecting from your partner in the bedroom. 


3) Avoiding conflict because it's uncomfortable. 


4) Letting resentment build up over time, which can lead to arguments about unimportant things. 


5) Getting too busy with kids and work to spend quality time together.

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