Long distance relationships can be tough. You're in love with someone, but you can't be with them all the time. You have to trust them and rely on them, even when you're not together.
But it's not all bad news. Long distance relationships can actually be really good for you. They can make you more independent and self-reliant. And they can also help you to appreciate your partner even more.
If you're in a long distance relationship, we want to let you know that you're not alone. And if you're considering it, these six benefits of long distance relationships might help convince you.
1. You'll become more independent and self-reliant. Long distance relationships force you to become independent. You have no choice but to learn how to do things on your own. If you need something done, you have to do it yourself. There's no "I'll get back to you" or "I'll get back home soon." You just have to get stuff done. And that's a good thing.
2. You'll learn how to communicate better. In a long distance relationship, you have to communicate with your partner on a regular basis. There's no way around it. You can't just avoid talking about the things that matter and expect everything to work out in the end. If you want your relationship to last, you have to work at communicating with each other.
3. You'll get more creative. In a long distance relationship, there are times when it's just you and your thoughts. And sometimes that can be really exciting...and other times it's pretty boring. So to keep yourself entertained and busy, you have to get creative. You come up with new ways to communicate with each other and figure out how to spend time together.
4. Your partner will appreciate you even more. When your partner is away from home, they miss all the little things about you. They miss the way that you smile at them when they walk in the door. They miss your snuggles on the couch. And they miss the way you take care of them when they're feeling down. It's just a reminder of how lucky they are to have someone like you in their life.
5. You'll learn more about each other. In a long distance relationship, you have no choice but to get to know each other really well. You have to trust each other and open up about your hopes, dreams and fears. You can't just sit back and wait for the other person to talk because you need to keep the communication flowing between the two of you.
6. Your relationship will be stronger than ever when you're finally able to be together again. When you're separated from your partner, it really puts your relationship to the test. It forces both of you to step outside of your comfort zones and get creative with ways to spend time together.
Long distance relationships can be tough. You're not able to see each other as often as you'd like, and when you are together, you have to make the most of your time. But even though it can be difficult, long distance relationships can also be very rewarding.
If you're in a long distance relationship, or considering one,
here are some tips to help make things a little easier.
1. Set up regular phone calls or video chats - long distance relationships are made much easier by being able to talk in person, even for just a few minutes each day.
2. Learn how to Skype chat with your partner's family and friends - this can be very helpful if you're both in the same room but can't see each other (or if you have no idea where your partner is). It also helps you get used to being around people who know your relationship status, which may make things easier when you do finally meet up in person.
3. Find ways to show your partner that you care -send them a note or email if they've had a hard day at work, or make their favorite meal for dinner just because you want to (and then share it with them over Skype). It doesn't have to be complicated; the little things you do for your partner count for a lot in a long distance relationship.
4. Make plans to see each other as often as possible - if you can't meet up in person, make sure that you both understand why and when you'll get to see each other next. Don't let too much time go by without contact; it's better to check in with your partner every once in a while than for them to feel forgotten about or ignored.
5. Be honest with yourself-and with your partner -about how you're feeling. If you're having a bad day, say so. If you miss your partner, admit it. And if you're feeling clingy or insecure, let your partner know that too; they want to help make things easier for you.
6. Remember that not all long distance relationships are meant to last forever - some people only have to be apart for a few months, and others may be separated for years at a time. Be patient with yourself and your partner, but don't feel like you have to stick it out just because "it's supposed to be hard."
7. Don't be afraid of commitment - if you're willing to make a long distance relationship work, that says something about your feelings for your partner. And while it can be hard at times, the effort is worth it in the end.
8. Remember that no matter how far apart you are, you'll always have each other - and when you do see each other, it's like a breath of fresh air. You'll both come home from a long day.
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